People are only capable of having relationships with so many people. We don’t need studies to tell us that. We know it instinctively.
That’s why we all behave differently in a large crowd than we do in a small group.
When there are thousands of people in a room, we expect to be an audience, so we become one. Even the presence of a few hundred people causes us to slip into the role of passive observer instead of active participant. That’s not to say that a large crowd is bad, but the mere fact of its size causes us to act more passively, even in church. We put on our polite crowd smile and become an audience.
But it’s different in a smaller group. We expect people to say hello. We hope for connection. We want to be a part of the conversation.
Today’s post is not a slam on big churches. None of my posts will ever be that. Instead, it’s intended to serve as a caution to Small Churches.
Friendliness is not more likely in a Small Church. But it is more important. Keep reading
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