Monday, May 24, 2021

8 Ways to Help a Friend When You Suspect Domestic Abuse


I speak with many people who are trying to help a friend whom they suspect is in an abusive marriage. Many are uncertain about the extent of the problem, but they fear for their friend and want to help.

While Scripture calls us to care for the weak and to guide and protect the oppressed (Ps. 82:1–4; Prov. 31:9; 103:6; Heb. 13:3), helping victims is a difficult task. To complicate matters, some victims are not aware they are being abused, and others live with so much fear they have learned to hide what is happening. Read More
As a retired child welfare case worker whose caseload included child abuse cases in which the perpetrator was also abusing the mother, my advice is to get professionals who have  experience with domestic abuse cases involved as soon as is humanly possible. This includes seeking their advice on how best to help the victim. 

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