Some of you have big buts (the one “t” variety, not the other kind). By that, I mean you live in constant emotional and relational tension because you live in the land of but.
- I know I’m supposed to forgive my spouse, but . . .
- I know my BFF didn’t mean to be a jerk, but . . .
- I know my dad didn’t intend to hurt me, but . . .
- I know my spouse isn’t perfect, but . . .
- I know my son is trying to change, but . . .
- I know my boss didn’t mean to wound me, but . . .
Folks who "yes but..." others secretly get a big kick out of it. Essentially their telling whoever is making a suggestion, offering them advice, or expressing an opinion, "You can't tell me what to think! You can't tell me what to do!" They are acting like a rebellious child.
It is bad enough doing it to our fellow human beings. It is really bad when we do it to God. "Yes, God, I know that we should love one another. BUT, I feel guilty and ashamed around that old guy because he was friendly and kind toward me and I was unfriendly and unkind to him."
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